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Making sure a lone kitten knows she's cat

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> Yeah, I probably should not have gotten a cat yet given my job situtation, > but my officemate brought it in the 2 week old kitten with no mom.  How > could I say no?

Well, you couldn’t.  It would be impossible.  :)  I think that waiting a month to get another kitten for your baby to play with will work very well.  That will give the kitten a good chance to bond with you first. When they’re so young, they will accept each other very easily.  In the meantime, bonding with you is great socialization for her.  :)  Good luck! Congrats on your Master’s!! Eva

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> I would eventually like to have two cats, so I have considered just getting > another kitten now.  Being kitten season there are lots on the 6 to 8 week > range out there.  But, first, springsteen hasn’t had any tests or shots yet, > and I don’t know if I should risk bringing in a new cat until this happens > (but then it will be 8 weeks – will that be too late to introduce a new cat > for the purpose of learning cat behaviors?)  Also, I am at an extream state > of flux as far as living arrangements go.  I have to be out of where I am > living now in 4 weeks, but I am still straightening out my job situations > (I’m about to get my master’s degree) and honestly don’t know where I will > be in a month.

My parents’ cat Oscar was abandoned at 3 weeks, and therefore didn’t have a normal kitten experience.  He was a terror (biting people, scratching our legs and arms,  no proper self-grooming, etc…) until he was about 2 months old, when he was introduced to my kitten Lady Jane.  She was a month younger than him, but just as big (she’s always been a big cat), and she had the benefit of growing up with a litter.  She taught him manners, and other "normal" cat stuff very quickly.  So, I think you should be okay waiting a couple of weeks to get the new kitten, judging from my experience with Lady Jane and Oscar. -jen http://jefferson.village.virginia.edu/~jsm9n/cats.html

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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – >Hi, I posted a couple of days ago about Springsteen, and me being a worried >mommy and thinking she was deaf.  Still not 100% sure since loud noises have >no effect on her, but she will come out of het box when I go to the kitchen >door and call….  Not the point here.. >She is about 4 and a half weeks old.  She was a rescue who was found dumped >in a cardboard box in my officemate’s yard.  Never haveing had a cat *this* >small, I am reading everything I can.  According to one book, she is in the >socialization phase.  I’m having no problem ensuring she is socialized to >people.  We have lots of visitors and she went on a weekend trip with me. >However, she hasn’t been able to meet other pets, let alone cats.  On our >weekend trip she met one dog she liked, and another who was a 10 month old >Rott puppy, and bit to much for the kitten.  I stayed at two different >places with her, one had one cat, the other had two.  But, these were all >older cats that did *not* like having a small kitten there.  So I am having >trouble finding cat role models to teach her how to be a cat.  Any advice? >I would eventually like to have two cats, so I have considered just getting >another kitten now.  Being kitten season there are lots on the 6 to 8 week >range out there.  But, first, springsteen hasn’t had any tests or shots yet, >and I don’t know if I should risk bringing in a new cat until this happens >(but then it will be 8 weeks – will that be too late to introduce a new cat >for the purpose of learning cat behaviors?)  Also, I am at an extream state >of flux as far as living arrangements go.  I have to be out of where I am >living now in 4 weeks, but I am still straightening out my job situations >(I’m about to get my master’s degree) and honestly don’t know where I will >be in a month. >Yeah, I probably should not have gotten a cat yet given my job situtation, >but my officemate brought it in the 2 week old kitten with no mom.  How >could I say no?

I wouldn’t worry about waiting a few weeks to get Springsteen a companion. Waiting until you have all the tests, shots and vet work is a very good idea before bringing in a second cat.   From 2 weeks to 14 weeks is typically the socialization phase, although I would expect some variation from cat to cat.   The kitten stage lasts until 9 months, but it’s sometimes longer in some  breeds, such as abys.  I would think you would be all right to bring in another cat at 8 weeks or later.  Beaners was 12 weeks when she met my older cat Hawaii, and things turned out fine. Good luck with your new kitten! — Jaalinta Scrape out the poop from my addy to reply Visit Hawaii & the Beaners – http://members.aol.com/Jaalinta/Wacky/wcpg1.htm

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Hi, I posted a couple of days ago about Springsteen, and me being a worried mommy and thinking she was deaf.  Still not 100% sure since loud noises have no effect on her, but she will come out of het box when I go to the kitchen door and call….  Not the point here.. She is about 4 and a half weeks old.  She was a rescue who was found dumped in a cardboard box in my officemate’s yard.  Never haveing had a cat *this* small, I am reading everything I can.  According to one book, she is in the socialization phase.  I’m having no problem ensuring she is socialized to people.  We have lots of visitors and she went on a weekend trip with me. However, she hasn’t been able to meet other pets, let alone cats.  On our weekend trip she met one dog she liked, and another who was a 10 month old Rott puppy, and bit to much for the kitten.  I stayed at two different places with her, one had one cat, the other had two.  But, these were all older cats that did *not* like having a small kitten there.  So I am having trouble finding cat role models to teach her how to be a cat.  Any advice? I would eventually like to have two cats, so I have considered just getting another kitten now.  Being kitten season there are lots on the 6 to 8 week range out there.  But, first, springsteen hasn’t had any tests or shots yet, and I don’t know if I should risk bringing in a new cat until this happens (but then it will be 8 weeks – will that be too late to introduce a new cat for the purpose of learning cat behaviors?)  Also, I am at an extream state of flux as far as living arrangements go.  I have to be out of where I am living now in 4 weeks, but I am still straightening out my job situations (I’m about to get my master’s degree) and honestly don’t know where I will be in a month. Yeah, I probably should not have gotten a cat yet given my job situtation, but my officemate brought it in the 2 week old kitten with no mom.  How could I say no?

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> Yeah, I probably should not have gotten a cat yet given my job situtation, > but my officemate brought it in the 2 week old kitten with no mom.  How > could I say no?

Well, you couldn’t.  It would be impossible.  :)  I think that waiting a month to get another kitten for your baby to play with will work very well.  That will give the kitten a good chance to bond with you first. When they’re so young, they will accept each other very easily.  In the meantime, bonding with you is great socialization for her.  :)  Good luck! Congrats on your Master’s!! Eva

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> I would eventually like to have two cats, so I have considered just getting > another kitten now.  Being kitten season there are lots on the 6 to 8 week > range out there.  But, first, springsteen hasn’t had any tests or shots yet, > and I don’t know if I should risk bringing in a new cat until this happens > (but then it will be 8 weeks – will that be too late to introduce a new cat > for the purpose of learning cat behaviors?)  Also, I am at an extream state > of flux as far as living arrangements go.  I have to be out of where I am > living now in 4 weeks, but I am still straightening out my job situations > (I’m about to get my master’s degree) and honestly don’t know where I will > be in a month.

My parents’ cat Oscar was abandoned at 3 weeks, and therefore didn’t have a normal kitten experience.  He was a terror (biting people, scratching our legs and arms,  no proper self-grooming, etc…) until he was about 2 months old, when he was introduced to my kitten Lady Jane.  She was a month younger than him, but just as big (she’s always been a big cat), and she had the benefit of growing up with a litter.  She taught him manners, and other "normal" cat stuff very quickly.  So, I think you should be okay waiting a couple of weeks to get the new kitten, judging from my experience with Lady Jane and Oscar. -jen http://jefferson.village.virginia.edu/~jsm9n/cats.html

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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – >Hi, I posted a couple of days ago about Springsteen, and me being a worried >mommy and thinking she was deaf.  Still not 100% sure since loud noises have >no effect on her, but she will come out of het box when I go to the kitchen >door and call….  Not the point here.. >She is about 4 and a half weeks old.  She was a rescue who was found dumped >in a cardboard box in my officemate’s yard.  Never haveing had a cat *this* >small, I am reading everything I can.  According to one book, she is in the >socialization phase.  I’m having no problem ensuring she is socialized to >people.  We have lots of visitors and she went on a weekend trip with me. >However, she hasn’t been able to meet other pets, let alone cats.  On our >weekend trip she met one dog she liked, and another who was a 10 month old >Rott puppy, and bit to much for the kitten.  I stayed at two different >places with her, one had one cat, the other had two.  But, these were all >older cats that did *not* like having a small kitten there.  So I am having >trouble finding cat role models to teach her how to be a cat.  Any advice? >I would eventually like to have two cats, so I have considered just getting >another kitten now.  Being kitten season there are lots on the 6 to 8 week >range out there.  But, first, springsteen hasn’t had any tests or shots yet, >and I don’t know if I should risk bringing in a new cat until this happens >(but then it will be 8 weeks – will that be too late to introduce a new cat >for the purpose of learning cat behaviors?)  Also, I am at an extream state >of flux as far as living arrangements go.  I have to be out of where I am >living now in 4 weeks, but I am still straightening out my job situations >(I’m about to get my master’s degree) and honestly don’t know where I will >be in a month. >Yeah, I probably should not have gotten a cat yet given my job situtation, >but my officemate brought it in the 2 week old kitten with no mom.  How >could I say no?

I wouldn’t worry about waiting a few weeks to get Springsteen a companion. Waiting until you have all the tests, shots and vet work is a very good idea before bringing in a second cat.   From 2 weeks to 14 weeks is typically the socialization phase, although I would expect some variation from cat to cat.   The kitten stage lasts until 9 months, but it’s sometimes longer in some  breeds, such as abys.  I would think you would be all right to bring in another cat at 8 weeks or later.  Beaners was 12 weeks when she met my older cat Hawaii, and things turned out fine. Good luck with your new kitten! — Jaalinta Scrape out the poop from my addy to reply Visit Hawaii & the Beaners – http://members.aol.com/Jaalinta/Wacky/wcpg1.htm

Response:

Hi, I posted a couple of days ago about Springsteen, and me being a worried mommy and thinking she was deaf.  Still not 100% sure since loud noises have no effect on her, but she will come out of het box when I go to the kitchen door and call….  Not the point here.. She is about 4 and a half weeks old.  She was a rescue who was found dumped in a cardboard box in my officemate’s yard.  Never haveing had a cat *this* small, I am reading everything I can.  According to one book, she is in the socialization phase.  I’m having no problem ensuring she is socialized to people.  We have lots of visitors and she went on a weekend trip with me. However, she hasn’t been able to meet other pets, let alone cats.  On our weekend trip she met one dog she liked, and another who was a 10 month old Rott puppy, and bit to much for the kitten.  I stayed at two different places with her, one had one cat, the other had two.  But, these were all older cats that did *not* like having a small kitten there.  So I am having trouble finding cat role models to teach her how to be a cat.  Any advice? I would eventually like to have two cats, so I have considered just getting another kitten now.  Being kitten season there are lots on the 6 to 8 week range out there.  But, first, springsteen hasn’t had any tests or shots yet, and I don’t know if I should risk bringing in a new cat until this happens (but then it will be 8 weeks – will that be too late to introduce a new cat for the purpose of learning cat behaviors?)  Also, I am at an extream state of flux as far as living arrangements go.  I have to be out of where I am living now in 4 weeks, but I am still straightening out my job situations (I’m about to get my master’s degree) and honestly don’t know where I will be in a month. Yeah, I probably should not have gotten a cat yet given my job situtation, but my officemate brought it in the 2 week old kitten with no mom.  How could I say no?

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> Yeah, I probably should not have gotten a cat yet given my job situtation, > but my officemate brought it in the 2 week old kitten with no mom.  How > could I say no?

Well, you couldn’t.  It would be impossible.  :)  I think that waiting a month to get another kitten for your baby to play with will work very well.  That will give the kitten a good chance to bond with you first. When they’re so young, they will accept each other very easily.  In the meantime, bonding with you is great socialization for her.  :)  Good luck! Congrats on your Master’s!! Eva

Response:

> I would eventually like to have two cats, so I have considered just getting > another kitten now.  Being kitten season there are lots on the 6 to 8 week > range out there.  But, first, springsteen hasn’t had any tests or shots yet, > and I don’t know if I should risk bringing in a new cat until this happens > (but then it will be 8 weeks – will that be too late to introduce a new cat > for the purpose of learning cat behaviors?)  Also, I am at an extream state > of flux as far as living arrangements go.  I have to be out of where I am > living now in 4 weeks, but I am still straightening out my job situations > (I’m about to get my master’s degree) and honestly don’t know where I will > be in a month.

My parents’ cat Oscar was abandoned at 3 weeks, and therefore didn’t have a normal kitten experience.  He was a terror (biting people, scratching our legs and arms,  no proper self-grooming, etc…) until he was about 2 months old, when he was introduced to my kitten Lady Jane.  She was a month younger than him, but just as big (she’s always been a big cat), and she had the benefit of growing up with a litter.  She taught him manners, and other "normal" cat stuff very quickly.  So, I think you should be okay waiting a couple of weeks to get the new kitten, judging from my experience with Lady Jane and Oscar. -jen http://jefferson.village.virginia.edu/~jsm9n/cats.html

Response:

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – >Hi, I posted a couple of days ago about Springsteen, and me being a worried >mommy and thinking she was deaf.  Still not 100% sure since loud noises have >no effect on her, but she will come out of het box when I go to the kitchen >door and call….  Not the point here.. >She is about 4 and a half weeks old.  She was a rescue who was found dumped >in a cardboard box in my officemate’s yard.  Never haveing had a cat *this* >small, I am reading everything I can.  According to one book, she is in the >socialization phase.  I’m having no problem ensuring she is socialized to >people.  We have lots of visitors and she went on a weekend trip with me. >However, she hasn’t been able to meet other pets, let alone cats.  On our >weekend trip she met one dog she liked, and another who was a 10 month old >Rott puppy, and bit to much for the kitten.  I stayed at two different >places with her, one had one cat, the other had two.  But, these were all >older cats that did *not* like having a small kitten there.  So I am having >trouble finding cat role models to teach her how to be a cat.  Any advice? >I would eventually like to have two cats, so I have considered just getting >another kitten now.  Being kitten season there are lots on the 6 to 8 week >range out there.  But, first, springsteen hasn’t had any tests or shots yet, >and I don’t know if I should risk bringing in a new cat until this happens >(but then it will be 8 weeks – will that be too late to introduce a new cat >for the purpose of learning cat behaviors?)  Also, I am at an extream state >of flux as far as living arrangements go.  I have to be out of where I am >living now in 4 weeks, but I am still straightening out my job situations >(I’m about to get my master’s degree) and honestly don’t know where I will >be in a month. >Yeah, I probably should not have gotten a cat yet given my job situtation, >but my officemate brought it in the 2 week old kitten with no mom.  How >could I say no?

I wouldn’t worry about waiting a few weeks to get Springsteen a companion. Waiting until you have all the tests, shots and vet work is a very good idea before bringing in a second cat.   From 2 weeks to 14 weeks is typically the socialization phase, although I would expect some variation from cat to cat.   The kitten stage lasts until 9 months, but it’s sometimes longer in some  breeds, such as abys.  I would think you would be all right to bring in another cat at 8 weeks or later.  Beaners was 12 weeks when she met my older cat Hawaii, and things turned out fine. Good luck with your new kitten! — Jaalinta Scrape out the poop from my addy to reply Visit Hawaii & the Beaners – http://members.aol.com/Jaalinta/Wacky/wcpg1.htm

Response:

Hi, I posted a couple of days ago about Springsteen, and me being a worried mommy and thinking she was deaf.  Still not 100% sure since loud noises have no effect on her, but she will come out of het box when I go to the kitchen door and call….  Not the point here.. She is about 4 and a half weeks old.  She was a rescue who was found dumped in a cardboard box in my officemate’s yard.  Never haveing had a cat *this* small, I am reading everything I can.  According to one book, she is in the socialization phase.  I’m having no problem ensuring she is socialized to people.  We have lots of visitors and she went on a weekend trip with me. However, she hasn’t been able to meet other pets, let alone cats.  On our weekend trip she met one dog she liked, and another who was a 10 month old Rott puppy, and bit to much for the kitten.  I stayed at two different places with her, one had one cat, the other had two.  But, these were all older cats that did *not* like having a small kitten there.  So I am having trouble finding cat role models to teach her how to be a cat.  Any advice? I would eventually like to have two cats, so I have considered just getting another kitten now.  Being kitten season there are lots on the 6 to 8 week range out there.  But, first, springsteen hasn’t had any tests or shots yet, and I don’t know if I should risk bringing in a new cat until this happens (but then it will be 8 weeks – will that be too late to introduce a new cat for the purpose of learning cat behaviors?)  Also, I am at an extream state of flux as far as living arrangements go.  I have to be out of where I am living now in 4 weeks, but I am still straightening out my job situations (I’m about to get my master’s degree) and honestly don’t know where I will be in a month. Yeah, I probably should not have gotten a cat yet given my job situtation, but my officemate brought it in the 2 week old kitten with no mom.  How could I say no?

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